re-spark?

Getting to hang out with him kind of rekindled a flame... It made me see how much mr dumdum has nothing to offer but a headache and heartache. It's weird that I can actually talk to him about relationships now... like the whole love should be reciprocal and used his own past relationships as an example. He has a very weird sense of humour, cook, laundry, a good son and brother, caring... perfect boyfriend material but at the same time how would I know right?